Clergy Retreat at Torchbearers, Dehradun
May 29, 2023, to June 01, 2023
The Diocese of Delhi organised a family retreat on the initiative of Bishop Swarup to give Presbyters and their families time to refresh themselves and to have fellowship with each other. Dehradun's quiet and serene environment with Torchbearers’ beautiful infrastructure made an excellent combination for spiritual revival and rededication to the Lord. An ideal choice of resource persons and devoted leaders made the retreat even more meaningful. The family seminar was titled "AS FOR ME AND MY HOUSE WE WILL SERVE THE LORD" with the theme: Together in the Vineyard
From the Diocese Office via Meerut to Torchbearers
An air-conditioned bus made travel easy and comfortable. The bus started from the Diocesan Office on Monday, May 29, 2023, at 6:00 a.m. Some participants came in their private vehicles. The first halt was made at St. James’ Church School, Meerut where Rev. Amit Singh had arranged breakfast for all the participants. Once the bus completed a peaceful journey, it arrived at Torchbearers at 2:00 p.m., where the delegates were promptly served lunch.
Day 1 - May 29, 2023
Following an hour of unwinding, the delegates assembled in the Conference Hall, where they offered praises to God led by Rev. Samuel Ashish Jacob. Subsequently, Rev. Kamal Mall, the event's convenor, introduced and warmly welcomed everyone in attendance.
Session 1
Mrs Reema Khandelwal led the first session, delving into the topic of "Teaching via Living." She explained the remarkable life of Noah, who, despite being surrounded by corruption, violence, and evil, remained an exemplar of righteousness and blamelessness. Noah walked with God without the presence of any role model, showcasing how pastors, even in the midst of adverse circumstances, can uphold their testimony and effectively guide their families and congregations.
Session 2
Rev. Ashish Khandelwal led the second session, titled "A Flourishing and Fruitful Family." His aim was to teach the essential godly elements required for a Christian family to fulfil God's plan. Emphasising the foundation of FAITH, he highlighted the significance of fostering FELLOWSHIP and FUN within the family while ensuring that each member embraces their biblical RESPONSIBILITIES. By adhering to these principles, God guides the Christian family towards flourishing and fruitfulness, transforming them into a masterpiece of His creation.
Fellowship Time
Following dinner, Rev. John Balasingh and Rev. Amit Singh led a delightful time of fellowship filled with fun and games.
Day 2 - May 30, 2023
Devotion
The day commenced with an uplifting Praise and Worship session led by Rev. Sandeep David, accompanied by Rev. Ashish Jacob, Rev. Amit Singh, Rev. Abhay Benson, and Ord. Illyashi.
Rev. Ashish Kandelwal’s Session on Technology
Mrs. Reema Khandelwal led the devotion, drawing inspiration from Hebrews 10:24-25. Focusing on the word "spur" or "uksana" in Hindi, she emphasised its positive connotation within this passage, contrary to its usual negative sense. The essence of her message revolved around finding inner happiness, enabling us to spread joy to others. Mrs. Khandelwal also highlighted the importance of fostering fellowship and encouraging one another to engage in acts of goodness.
Session 3
Rev. Ashish Khandelwal led the third session of the retreat, titled "Technology: A Good Servant but a Bad Master," drawing inspiration from Exodus 23:1. The session commenced with a brief quiz on social media, engaging the attendees. Rev. Khandelwal then proceeded to discuss the advantages and disadvantages of social media. He shed light on the illusory nature of the online world, where public opinion holds great significance. He emphasised the prevalence of fake and misleading information on the internet, often perceived as authentic and subsequently shared. While acknowledging the benefits of technology, Rev. Khandelwal urged ministers to discern where to draw the line and exercise caution in their use of technology.
Session 4 - Bishop’s Session
Rt. Rev. Dr. Paul Swarup, Bishop of Delhi, took charge of the fourth session, focusing on the "Promise of the Holy Spirit." He elucidated that in the Old Testament, the Holy Spirit was a temporary visitor, manifesting for specific purposes and individuals such as kings, prophets, and selecting others before departing. However, 700 years prior to Christ, the prophet Joel prophesied in Chapter 2 that the Holy Spirit would be poured out upon the masses. Furthermore, in 620 BC, Jeremiah 31:31-34 conveyed God's promise of a new covenant with Israel, wherein He would inscribe His laws upon their hearts.
Recalling Moses' time at Mount Sinai, where the people broke the first two laws and worshipped an idol, Bishop highlighted that the laws were external. However, through Christ, they are now internalised within the hearts of believers through the indwelling of the Holy Spirit. In John 14:15-18, Jesus assured faithful followers of the gift of the Holy Spirit and the promise of eternal life with Him.
Bishop Swarup’s Session on the Promise of the Holy Spirit
The Bishop emphasised three key points for Christians to remember:
I. Unfaithfulness is the most significant sin, thus emphasising the importance of reading and understanding God's Word to discern His will.
II. God has called believers to righteousness, and it is through faith that righteousness is attained.
III. The ruler of the world will face condemnation, and those who align with him will also face judgment.
The Spirit of God liberates us from bondage and empowers us. The Bishop explained that we can approach God solely through the righteousness of Jesus, not our own. While the coming of the Holy Spirit is a one-time event, being filled with the Holy Spirit is an ongoing, continuous process.
Session 5
Mrs. Reema Khandelwal conducted the fifth session, focusing on the topic of Parenting titled "Children are our Treasure." She emphasised the lifelong role of being a parent, stating that once a parent, always a parent. The magnitude of parental responsibilities increases over time. Both mothers and fathers bear responsibility for the actions and development of their children, whether good or bad. Mrs. Khandelwal stressed the importance of nurturing children in holiness, recognising them as reflections of God's image. She highlighted the need for a trusting relationship between children and parents, assuring children that they will be accepted unconditionally by their parents.
Furthermore, parents were encouraged to introduce Jesus to their children and create a godly environment for them. Mrs. Khandelwal stated that parents must first work on their own rectification, as children absorb and learn from their parent’s example. It is crucial for parents to teach their children the path to salvation. Parenting, she underlined, is a profoundly significant calling.
Mrs. Khandelwal divided parenting into three parts:
Dedication - based on Proverbs 22:6
Direction - based on Proverbs 14:12
Deliverance - based on Psalm 147:3
In conclusion, Mrs. Khandelwal prompted the delegates to create a list of aspirations for what they desire their children to become.
Vesper Service
The praise and worship session was led by Martha and the wives of the Presbyters. The opening prayer was led by Ordinand Goldwin William. Bible readings were conducted by Rev. Sandeep David, Ord. Illyashi, and Rev. Abhay Benson. Deacon Narender led the prayer.
Rev. Timothy Shaw delivered the message, cautioning pastors against succumbing to worldly influences. Drawing from 1 John 2:15-17, Rev. Shaw highlighted three key points:
Do not love the world or the things of the world. Rev. Shaw urged pastors' wives to prevent their husbands from being entangled in worldly pursuits.
Worldly temptations can be categorised into three areas: the desire for material wealth, the lustful longing of the eyes, and the arrogance of worldly achievements.
The pandemic has served as a reminder for pastors to transcend these worldly attachments and actively share in the struggles and pain of their congregation.
Day 3 - May 31, 2023
Devotion
Rev. Lomash Chand led the session of Praise and Worship, setting the atmosphere for spiritual upliftment.
The message was delivered by Rev. Vasant Kumar Reuben, who focused on the teachings from Matthew 5. Reverend uplifted the delegates by reminding them of the empowering words, "You are the salt of the earth." Rev. Reuben emphasised that ministers of God are called to make a lasting impact in the world. It is our responsibility to share the blessings that God has bestowed upon us. The influence we have on others is determined by our character and conduct. Just as salt alters whatever it touches, we must strive to preserve our purity through continual self-renewal. Ultimately, our lifestyle should reflect the beauty of Christ dwelling within us.
Praise and Worship
Session 6
Mrs. Reema Khandelwal led the sixth session, titled "Ministerial Challenges and Solutions." Through an engaging game, she highlighted the tendency of dissatisfaction when we compare ourselves to others rather than focusing on our own situations. As ministers, she highlighted the importance of concentrating on our own "plates" or responsibilities.
Mrs. Khandelwal conducted a small SWOT analysis, teaching that while pastors may need to overlook certain things, they should not ignore everything. It is crucial for ministers to respond appropriately when necessary. The intense pressure of ministry often takes a toll on pastors' mental and physical health. Therefore, she focused on the need to rely on God, the ultimate source of peace.
When it comes to handling finances and resources, Mrs. Khandelwal stated three important principles for ministers to remember:
Tithe: Giving a portion of their income back to God.
Save: Being wise stewards by setting aside money for the future.
Spend: Utilising resources wisely and responsibly.
By adhering to these principles, ministers can navigate the challenges they face and find solutions to effectively serve their ministries.
Session 7 - Bishop’s Session
The seventh session was led by Rt. Rev. Dr. Paul Swarup, titled "One Spirit, Different Gifts," based on 1 Corinthians 12:1-11. The Church at Corinth, as mentioned in Acts 18:1-11, was established by Apostle Paul.
In Corinth, some individuals became prideful and considered themselves superior disciples due to their spiritual gifts, particularly the ability to speak in tongues. Paul addressed this issue by explaining the true meaning of spiritual gifts and how they should be used within the church.
The ultimate gift of the Spirit is the faith that Jesus is the Lord, which formed the foundation of the first-century Creed. Other gifts are secondary and enable individuals to work in God's vineyard.
1 Corinthians 12:4-11 describes the manifestation of the Spirit for the common good, highlighting the following aspects:
There are various kinds of gifts, but they all come from the same Spirit.
There are diverse ministries, but they are all under the authority of one Lord.
Different kinds of work are carried out, but it is all directed by the same God.
The Church of God is characterised by the presence of spiritual gifts, given to individuals for the benefit of the community, such as hospitality and caring for others.
There are three major groups of gifts:
Bishop Swarup’s Session on One Spirit, Different Gifts
Gifts of revelation, include wisdom (the ability to make sound decisions in life's dilemmas), knowledge (receiving insights into unknown matters), and discernment (the ability to differentiate and test the truth).
Gifts of power, such as extraordinary faith (having unwavering conviction in answered prayers), miracles (demonstrating the power of the Holy Spirit), and healing (bringing healing from illnesses).
Gifts of communication, including prophecy (speaking forth the mind and heart of God to His people, standing with the oppressed), tongues, and the interpretation of tongues (edification of oneself and engaging in spiritual battles).
Ephesians 4:4-12 mentions the gift of apostleship, which can be categorised into three types:
Universal apostles, representing the entire Church.
Sent ones, such as pastors and evangelists.
The twelve disciples of Christ.
Regarding prophets:
Old Testament prophets are no longer present.
The prophetic ministry continues even in the absence of Old Testament prophets.
Prophetic ministry also includes evangelistic efforts, including door-to-door preaching.
Pastoral ministry involves tending to and feeding the sheep, focusing on teaching the Word of God rather than solely performing miracles.
It is important to recognise that behind every gift is the same Spirit, and God grants these gifts as needed. The Holy Spirit brings order, and the gifts within the church are meant for its growth. Spiritual gifts must be used wisely, with a clear understanding of their purpose and proper application
Session 8
The eighth session was led by Rev. Ashish Khandelwal, titled "Family as a Church," based on Matthew 12.
Rev. Khandelwal explained the concept of the church as a family. In Matthew 12, the family of Jesus is defined as those who listen to His words and put them into practice. Drawing from Mark 3:31-35, he highlighted that the true family of Jesus is made up of those who do the will of God. Additionally, Luke 8:19-21 emphasises that they are the ones who not only listen but also act upon the word of God.
God has called us to be adopted into His family, and Jesus refers to the church using various metaphors:
The body of Christ
The bride of Christ
Citizens who are members of God's household
Priesthood
Flock
Branches
The church is referred to as God's family (cf. 1 Timothy 3:14-15), consisting of those who are saved and baptised (cf. Mark 16:16, Acts 2:38,41), committed to Jesus and to one another (cf. 2 Corinthians 8:5, Romans 12:10), and preparing for the return of Christ (cf. Hebrews 12:23). Therefore, the family is a church (cf. 1 Timothy 3:15).
It is important to reflect on how we behave within the family of God. We should strive to maintain relationships built on loyalty and obedience (Matthew 12:47-50). While Satan cannot enter the house of God, those who leave the family become vulnerable to his schemes. Therefore, cultivating fellowship based on love and care for one another is crucial (John 15:12, 17:20, Galatians 6:2). Active participation in the church, founded on true commitment and forgiveness, should be encouraged (cf. Acts 4:32-35, Luke 17:3-4).
Recreational Activities - Table Tennis
Lunch and Free Time
Following the session, a delicious lunch was served to the delegates. Afterwards, a period of free time was granted, allowing the delegates to explore the surroundings and engage in sightseeing activities. While some chose to stay back and appreciate the serene and picturesque view of the campus, others took the opportunity to visit the scenic attractions of Dehradun and Mussoorie, indulging in the beauty of the surroundings.
Vesper Service
In the evening, a Vesper service was held, with Rev. Sudhir Emmanuel Rumalshah leading the Praise and Worship. Rev. Morrison Rose delivered a powerful message based on Job 1:1-12, underlining the importance of remaining steadfast in God, even in the face of challenges and temptations.
Dinner and Fellowship
Following dinner, a designated fellowship time was provided to foster fellowship and camaraderie among the pastors and their families.
Day 4 - June 1, 2023
The day commenced with a vibrant praise and worship session led by Rev. Sasimual. Rev. Bani then delivered a compelling message titled "Presence of God and Holiness," drawing inspiration from Genesis 17:1. Rev. Bani explained that blessings and success are attained through living in the constant presence of God, citing examples such as Genesis 39:2-6, Joshua 1:5, and 1 Kings 17:1.
Kids Section
The retreat also welcomed Pastor's Children under the age of 12, who were provided with special arrangements including Bible classes and fellowship games. Mrs. Martha Singh and Rev. Jyoti Pillai led this ministry, supported by other ladies attending the retreat.
Fellowship
The retreat fostered interaction among the delegates during tea and meals, creating an engaging atmosphere. Ample free time was provided, allowing the delegates to develop meaningful connections and facilitate networking in ministry.
Torchbearers via Meerut to Diocese Office
After the morning devotion, the delegates enjoyed a hearty breakfast before departing for Meerut. They were warmly received by Rev. Amit Singh and his family at St. James Church School, where a delicious lunch awaited them. After spending an hour in Meerut, the bus then headed back to Delhi, reaching the Diocesan Office by 5:00 p.m.
Concluding Remarks
The retreat at Dehradun provided pastors with a much-needed break from their busy schedules and allowed them to spend quality time with their families and friends. The arrangements at Himalayan Torchbearers were exceptional, with delicious food and comfortable transportation. The sessions were meaningful and provided valuable learning experiences. The daily devotions helped us stay close to God. The inclusion of children's sessions was a thoughtful gesture. We extend our gratitude to Rt. Rev. Dr. Paul Swarup for envisioning this retreat, which took place after twelve years, and Rev. Kamal Mall for coordinating the event. We hope to continue having such retreats and fellowships regularly in the future.
This article was written by Rev. Sandeep David, Presbyter Diocese of Delhi and edited by a volunteer. If you would like to contribute such articles please write to info@dioceseofdelhi.org
